Marrying A Phuket Bar Girl

The Phuket guide has includes this “marrying a Phuket bar girl” section in our Phuket as it has proven to be an important topic for many visitors. The main reason is obviously because many guys who visit Phuket end up marrying a Phuket bar girl. This section of our Phuket guide would like to offer some insight into a marriage with a Thai bar girl and to offer some advice and tips when and where possible.

Many frequent visitors to Phuket have experienced the Phuket nightlife and all its delight. There are thousands of lovely sexy Phuket bar girls working at the various different Phuket beer bars and other Phuket nightlife venues and many guys end up spending days if not weeks with the same Phuket bar girl. People tend to call this the GFE which stands for the girl friend experience. People do not seem to really realize that they are basically buying time from a hooker and consider these Phuket bar girls as their experience which is why often these guys end up marrying a Phuket bar girl. The obvious question which many outsiders ask is whether guys would ever consider marrying a hooker back in their own country however as stated before, it just not seems like you are staying with a professional Phuket sex worker.

In all fairness to these charming Phuket bar girls, many of them have had few other options. Many of these Phuket bar girls come from very poor families from around Thailand and they come to Phuket to work as a Phuket bar girl for a number of reasons. Obviously the main reason why they work in Phuket is because there are many tourists and they can make money so as to escape poverty. However, many of these hot Phuket Girls also hope that they can find a nice foreign guy who is interested in marrying a Phuket bar girl. There are plenty of Phuket bar girls that have worked in a Phuket beer bar for less than a year before they found a nice farang who married them or took them back to their home country.

A popular saying which I often hear here in Thailand is: “You can take a girl out of a bar however you cannot take the bar out of the girl. There is obviously some truth to that saying however you should not use this as a guideline. When marrying a Phuket bar girl there are a number of things which you should be looking at. What could be important for example is the amount of time that the Phuket bar girl in question has been working in a Phuket bar girl. I believe that a Phuket bar girl who has been working in a bar for only a few months will have less trouble adapting to a life abroad or with a marriage to a western guy. If a Phuket bar girl has been working in a Phuket beer bar for many years then changes are that she will have an alcohol or drug problem and that they will be completely used to working at night and sleeping all day. I have heard many stories from people who married a Phuket bar girl like that and they simply could not get into a normal routine.

Most guys who end up getting married to a Phuket bar girl end up taking their new wife back to their home country. These guys will have to face a wide range of problems. These problems can be resolved however you should be aware of them before marrying a Phuket bar girl. This will allow for you to plan ahead of what your actions should be and what you should consider.

Thai Food – Thai ladies living abroad are well known for not adapting well to local foods and local food habits. Be sure that there is a Thai or Oriental shop nearby to your home so that your new Thai wife can stock up on Thai food and various ingredients. She will not be too thrilled about your fish and chips.

Thai Friends - When you are marrying a Phuket bar girl and are planning to take them back to your home country then you should realize that especially during the first few years then will be rather shy when it comes to making friends. The best thing which you can do is to find some Thai friends for them as they will have much less trouble bonding. You can check for some local Thai restaurants or Thai associations or you can even contact the local Thai embassy or consulate for some contacts and addresses.

Staying Home Alone: Changes are that you will have to return back to work once you returned home after your marriage with a Phuket bar girl. You new Thai wife will most likely stay at home alone and this could become troublesome for you. From experience I can tell you that she will end up calling you every 5 minutes as she will get bored and will be afraid to leave the house alone.

Phone Calls: Another problem that many guys face who ended up marrying a Phuket bar girl is that their new Thai wives will end up spending massive amounts of time on the phone to their family in Thailand. Obviously you can hardly forbid to have contact with her Thai family so be sure to set up a cheap calling plan or teach her how to use Skype.

Thai Wife Jealousy: Thai wives are famous for getting extremely jealous. If you do marry a Phuket bar girl and do take her back to your home then be careful. Do not be stupid and introduce her to ex girlfriends and don’t chat to ladies when you are out together at a bar or club. Even if the lady in question is only a friend, your Thai wife will get extremely jealous and she will probably start a massive fight. This could cost you’re a few mobile phones or a new car window.

Questions from family and friends: Changes are that when you are marrying a Phuket bar girl is that once you get back home that all your family and friends will have questions. Thailand is well known for its sex industry and its mail order brides. Many people will assume that you have married a hooker and it depends on you on how comfortable you are with talks like that. People will ask you questions like: Where did you meet or what type of work did she do. If you do not want people to know that you married a Thai hooker then the two of you should have some cover story ready. You could for example tell them that she worked in a restaurant where you ate or perhaps that she was introduced to you at a party of some kind.

Home Sickness: Many Thai ladies living abroad suffer a great deal from home sickness. Many guys who ended up marrying a Phuket bar girl will experience a few months into their marriage the problem that their new wife wants to return back to Thailand because they miss the weather, food and family. If you are lucky then she only wants to return for a vacation but what will you do if she insists on living in Thailand. Will you drop your work etc and try to find a job in Thailand? This is not easy and salaries are much lower then what you would expect to get back in your home country.

There is another major issue which has destroyed many guys who married a Phuket bar girl. If you love a women and she says the same to you then you would normally expect that your marriage is based on love. However it seems that many Phuket bar girls find it very easy to say I love you to a guy without really meaning it. Guys marry a Thai bar girl and end up losing a lot of money as that was the sole purpose of these Thai bar girls. If you do end up marrying a Phuket bar girl then you should be very careful with your finances etc. Be sure that you have a solid prenuptial agreement. You should also be realistic. If you would like to marry for love then you should question yourself if you are 60 and are marrying a Phuket bar girl who is only 20 or 25. What are the changes that a Phuket bar girl will really love you?.

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